by Nayto » Sun Oct 23, 2016 3:37 am
Use your time without a wife wisely to study the Word and to improve yourself. Don't go hanging around with women who are not desirable as a wife, especially in this day and age.
Take a weekend or some vacation time to go visit your kindred, even if it's far away. Even if you've never met them before (but they can be vouched for; I'm sure this forum will be good for that). Go and serve those kindred and be a blessing to them. This will improve your chances of meeting a good CI woman who might be a wife.
Just don't be all desperate about it, saying to the people there, "Yeah, I'm looking for a wife you know." LOL. If it happens it happens, if it doesn't it doesn't.